The South Carolina House of Representatives has passed a bill requiring the abortion clinic to offer to show the ultrasound of the unborn child - the fetus - to the mother before the abortion. The ultrasound is already being done and paid for by the mother, why shouldn't she be offered the opportunity to see what she's paying for?
Of course the pro-abortion delegates to the SC House and in the media and blogosphere object.
From Forbes.com on line:
Rep. Gilda Cobb-Hunter, a Democrat, said the new requirement is emotional blackmail for a woman who has already made an agonizing decision.
"You love them in the womb but once they get here, it's a different story," said Cobb-Hunter, a social worker. "You're sitting here passing judgment? Who gave you the right?"
Star Jones writes in her World Net Daily column on one pro-abortion advocate's comments:
According to NARAL Pro-Choice America President Nancy Keenan, "The women of South Carolina are fully capable of asking their doctor for information they need to make private, personal medical decisions. Politicians don't belong in the examining room."
Then, there are these from Blog.bioethics.net:
South Carolina law already requires the ultrasound, as well as doctor counseling of the age and development of the fetus, as well as alternatives to abortion. This is nothing more than a bald-faced attempt at intimidation and emotional manipulation of someone who is already in a vulnerable position.
The thing that baffles me the most is, what? You're going to suddenly see an ultrasound image and decide that no, all the reasons you have for an abortion have flown out the window, and really it's a great time to be a mother, hooray? Are we suddenly going to see social services increase in funding? Are we going to have outstanding health care, job retraining, free and good state-sponsored child-sitting services? Is South Carolina going to suddenly take away every single obstacle that exists to bearing and caring for a child, so that the only barrier remaining is whether or not a woman thinks this is the right time for her, without consideration to financial/economic concerns?
And from a comment on that last:
Isn't this really a case of the state trying to persuade based on images. Images are often misleading--they often fail to portray facts because humans associate the images with particular notions, accurate or not. In the case of abortion, the image of a partially developed fetus may resemble the outline of a newborn child. But that fact alone does not mean that it is a newborn child. Yet for many, including many under-educated, images may conjure notions that do not portray fact.
Isn't it great to hear/read the same old "love them in the whom, but once they get here . . ." and "What gave you the right?" Not to mention that abortion is justified as long as there are any poor or "under-educated."
Ms. Jones answers the NARAL argument:
An increasing number of crisis-pregnancy centers now have ultrasound equipment that allows clients to see the child developing within them. Their experience shows that there is little question that this materially impacts the decision that women make. Centers report that anywhere from 62 percent up to 95 percent of women who had intended to abort changed their minds after seeing the images.
Assuming that these statistics are accurate, the question remains whether these young women changed their minds because their perceptions of the reality with which they were dealing changed, or because they were intimidated or emotionally blackmailed.
Intimidation or blackmail implies some kind of threat. What exactly might that threat be?
You might say that a young woman with a pregnancy she did not intend is emotionally vulnerable. I would agree with that.
It's exactly why statements from the NARAL universe that portray these young women ("fully capable of asking their doctor for information they need") as cool, sober and rational, calculating the equivalent of whether or not to have a wart removed or to get a Botox injection, are so ludicrous.
As any woman can tell you, instincts and intuition are powerful. These women are stressed because they know that suddenly the decision they have to make is not casual, that it is deeply meaningful and gravely important. Chances are, if they had the tools at their disposal to make a proper decision, they would not be in the situation they are in to begin with.
In South Carolina, as in the nation as a whole, about half the abortions that are performed are on women under 24. Around 17 percent are on women under age 19.
What kind of sense can it possibly make to suggest that a young woman, who we don't think is old enough to vote or go into a liquor store and buy beer, has the resources on her own to understand the implications of aborting a child? Is there some absence of proportion here?
A woman in her 40s may not remember who taught her math in high school, but she'll never forget the abortion she had. Why?
Knowledge comes to us through different paths. We hear and read words. But visual images are something else. Why, when we realize something we had been indifferent to or unaware of, do we say our "eyes were opened"?
More eyes are opening in our country today and realizing that freedom is not tantamount to meaninglessness.
When these young women see fingers, toes and a beating heart, they understand the emerging life within them. This is a profound moment of personal growth. It's what causes their change and opens the door to their own rebirth and a life with new possibilities.
I agree. What, exactly, do all those pro-abortion women mean when they say that women and girls about to undergo abortion are "vulnerable"?
It's not enough to say that seeing the fetus will cause emotional stress or trauma. She's bound to see an ultrasound ("US") of a fetus someday - either in a movie, a TV show or as part of her own or someone else's prenatal care for a future pregnancy - and she is just as likely to compare that US to the aborted fetus. If the US leads to emotional damage before the abortion, it's likely to cause emotional trauma after the abortion.
The US and the counseling are already necessary for medical reasons of improved staging and positioning which improve the care for the woman, herself. Why not use the US for the counseling while you're at it?
It's true that the pregnancy assistance centers ("anti-abortion" groups who counsel women against abortion and provide various resources related to pregnancy and motherhood) report that the women who see their fetus by US are more likely to decide against abortion. But these are women and girls who are already contemplating not aborting.
The same may or may not be true of the general population.
But if it is, then it seems to me an argument in favor of, not against, showing her the US, unless you find abortion inherently preferable to continuing the pregnancy.
The economic and social consequences are very real concerns, but should be a separate issue from the benefits of informed consent for the procedure of abortion.
4 comments:
The pain you feel after an abortion is something you will never get over. I was pressured into having an abortion and I cry every day and wish that I would have kept the gift that God gave to me. Women I say to you all never let a man decide to take your joy that is living within you away, you will never forgive yourself and the pain will never diminish. You may find yourself riding down the road crying your heart out, lying in bed drenching your pillows with tears, there is nothing you can do in order to bring back your child. So please let your child live and love what you have created before you create a lifetime problem for yourself. -TLW
Thank you for posting, TLW. Your words mean more than mine ever could. (but that won't stop me from writing a whole bunch more)
I hope you understand where your forgiveness will come from and that altho' none of us deserve it, it's there, constantly there, for the acceptance.
If you haven't already, and no matter what, I also hope you will look into Operation Outcry or one of the many post-abortion support groups. I know that our pregnancy assistance center has a group and that many local churches do, too.
I'm a child of the '70's and sort of evolved my own (Baptist, wife and mother as well as a late college student then med student, etc.) feminism because of the inequality, fear and force that I saw used against women by men, by misguided parents and by so-called (but erroneously named) "women's rights" or "reproductive rights" groups that use abortion to solve too many problems while rallying the troops.
That "reproductive rights" call really irritates me - whatever happened to the idea that "you can have it all" and that women are equal under the law? Does it simply vanish when one of us has a child? Or are we defined as successful, worthy or possessors of rights because we have or have not given birth to one or more live children?
I'm convinced that abortion is just one more way to enforce the double standard, and to instrumentalize our bodies so that we think we're not as good as men.
And it nets a lot of power for some women to use in the public realm -- and to use against other women, as well.
And far, far too often, I hear your story from women who were forced to make their "choice" by the father of their child.
It's one more abuse of women by men.
The good news is that there are men who are good. Good companions and partners and husbands. And they make good fathers, too.
These women are not "offered" a chance to see the ultrasound- they are required to sign a legal document saying that they did view the image. For those women who are in a position where they feel they have no choice but abortion, seeing that image is not "good"- it is unspeakably cruel. Instead of focusing on how to punish these women, let's focus on how to prevent these situations in the first place- through education about alternatives and prevention.
-SC Law Student and former Crisis Pregnancy Center Volunteer
If you've read some of my comments, I'm not thinking of punishing anyone -- I'm thinking of the informed consent that I'd want to give my patient if I were about to perform and intentional, invasive procedure. Having her sign that I reviewed the US with her is not an undue burden.
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